The Way You Have To Act On The 1st Date

I think everyone should share how they think men and women should act on the 1st date...

[/i]What should they talk about
What should they wear
Where should they go
How should they act

What should they talk about :
Very broad, won't you say? It could be anything! the food, the movie, other people, ex-boy/girlfriends, hobbies, music, sex, sports (though, not every woman likes that one i believe), etc. It depends on the date i think.

What should they wear
Ah yes, all black but that means very depressing. All white means easy spots. Something colourful would suffice ; im not into women's clothing.

Men should wear something neutral. Not too many colours, and not combining green with red or something like that. Just, dress like you not going to a frat-party.

Where should they go
You do NOT want to go to the movies! No conversation, which means no chance for a second date! Go ice-skating, go to a soccer-match, at least do something both can laugh about and enjoy at the same time. Always combine the date with diner ; not use diner as a date .

How should they act

Like everyone would act like him/herself during a first date . I guess trying to be interested in the other. Let them do the talking and only ask something when there's going to be a long silence or when you must answer a question.



hmmz, with everyone in this topic we might get the ultimate date!

sure about each other, hobbies, interests, likes and dislikes - first date is for getting know each other better. but talk only about smth positive. first date isn't for tell your lacks. and not about ex boyfriends/girlfriends

anything that suit the person well (with no importance of fashion), the cloths shouldn't be too revealing

in some public place - big restaurant, cafe, public park where there are a lot of people. u don't know the person well yet - so tete-a-tete date will be in future.

naturally, to be yourself, try to be interesting, joke but not to be a commic