Sexual Play

Hi. Guys enjoy being sexually teased. A lot of women don't enjoy it sexual teasing, and thus "don't get it". Trust me on this, sexual teasing if a very good thing for a guy - especially if you follow up by fully satisfying him.

You want to almost show something, then show it and quickly cover it, and then repeat before permanently removing each item of clothing. You also want to give limited looks at a newly uncovered body part at first, working up to a better and better view.

Another part of the tease is that he does not get to touch you. You can touch him, but he can't touch you.

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I want to give some advice how undress. Doing the striptease someplace other than the bedroom can give an added thrill, if you can manage it. You want very good lighting so he can fully appreciate the body he so enjoys (forget about how you feel about your body - he thinks your naked body is hot). An overhead light plus one or two side light sources is best. Place a chair for him in situated so you can easily move all the way around him. Put a second chair, or better a stool, near by - this is for your use. You don't want him naked, but you want him dressed so that you can easily access his more sexual parts. Nothing but a pair of boxers would be a good choice. Some music is a good idea - moving to a strong beat may help you feel more at ease, and silence other than his heavy breathing may be hard to deal with.

When it's time, give him the rules (see below) and send him off to get undressed per your directions, then return and sit in the chair. When you send him away be dressed normally, giving no hint of what's to come. Give him more than enough time to get to his spot, then while still in your regular clothes go into the room and turn on the music and the lights. Make a fuss about getting the lights just right - you are building anticipation here. Give him a quick kiss and tell him the show will start shortly. Then go to another room and get dressed .

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Try to forget about how silly you feel. He is not thinking this, he is thinking how hot you are, and how great it is that you are doing this for him. If dancing makes you feel silly, then don't - you can undress and move around in a way that will drive him wild without dancing.


Start up close: Enter the room, and circle the chair slowly, giving him a good look at you. As you pass behind him lean over and whisper in his ear, telling him you are going to strip for him, or something else to get him going. Stop in front of him, and bend over so he can peek down your shirt. Straddle one of his legs and lower yourself onto it, then briefly rub your crotch against his leg.


The moves: Move continually, mostly in front of him, but occasionally going behind him. Use the empty chair/stool - put a leg up on it, sit on it and slowly part your legs, bend over and put your hands on it, stand behind it and spread your legs - be creative. As you move give him a view of you from all sides, and of you standing, bending, and so on. Move up close from time to time and give him a good look or touch him. In particular make contact between parts of his body and your breasts, rear, and crotch. Touch his penis occasionally through whatever he is wearing - but only in a limited way and for a short period of time.


Getting naked: This should take a good while. Don't just remove something - play with it. One button at a time, half an inch at a time. Slide clothing aside for a moment to give a quick peek. Unfasten, or partly unfasten an item, and then move around before you finish taking it off. Understand that he likes seeing your hands on the parts of you that he wants to touch, so stroking, squeezing and rubbing your breasts and crotch is a good idea. Do this through clothing, under clothing, and unclothed. You can accentuate these things by making a face that says "that feels good".

Remember, tease, tease, tease. Fully unbutton your shirt, then turn your back on him before you remove it. Turn back to him, but with the shirt held over your bra. Turn and bend over, slip your panties down to show your rear, then pull them back up before you face him again. When your panties finally come off, keep your legs together at first, denying him what he is now crazy to see. When your breasts are naked, go and shake them in his face - just out of reach. Kneel and place his leg between your breasts. Place your foot up on his chair between his legs, and gently rub him with your foot. When you are down to just panties give his leg a good ride, or take his hand and rub the back side of it against your crotch. Be aware that he can see your vulva from the back side if you bend over, and make use of this. You don't have to stay on your feet - you can kneel, crawl, lay on the floor, and even roll around a bit.

The talk: You can add to his pleasure by what you say. Tell or ask him about your body - tweak your nipples to make them erect and say "Do you like it when my nipples are hard?" Slip your hand in your panties and report to him that you are getting wet. Ask him which breasts he wants to see uncovered first, or if he is ready for some item of clothing to come off. Don't feel compelled to follow what he says.

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If you are up for it, finish your performance by letting him watch you enjoy a self induced orgasm. You can use his body or do it yourself. To drive him over the top, put a chair in front of him, sit down, put your feet on his knees, spread wide, and masturbate. Bonus point for self penetration. If masturbating to orgasm is not something you want to do, you can play at it a bit and then get him to help you finish up.

To start making love, have her take a bath or shower. To make it even nicer give her a bubble bath (prepare it for her and help her wash) or get in the shower with her and do the washing for her. When she is dry (do that for her too) have her lay face down on a beach towel on the floor (better thanthe bed, you need a firm surface). Have a small pillow for her head, and another to put under her legs just above the feet - a hand towel over the pillows will protect them from the massage oil. Use a good massage oil(see below), and apply the oil to your hands, not directly to her skin.Start at her feet, and work up, slowly! Feet can be ticklish, so be careful - firm pressure will reduce tickling. Your strokes should be towards her heart, or firm moving towards her heart and soft on the return stroke. Spend a bit of extra time on her rear end, as it's a sensual area. You can use your full hands and a good deal of pressure on her rear. Avoid her spine as you move up her back. Learn where she carries tension, and pay special attention to those areas; the shoulders and neck are common tension spots.

When you reach her head, turn her over, and work back down towards the feet. The face is a sensuous area for a woman, so spend a bit of time there. Use light finger tip massage tracing her features.

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Work down the front of her arms and do her hands before you move to her breasts. Don't just grab on, tease her. Move over her breast gently, then move around to the outside edge and around back to the top. Cup as you rub, with one or two hands depending on what best covers her. Give some special attention to the nipples, but only after you have spent plenty of time on the rest of the breast. Don't squeeze the nipple too firmly.

Work on down now, but don't be in a hurry to get to her genitals. Move over and around her tummy, then run your hands down the outside of her legs. Roll your hands in and come back up the inside of the legs. Follow the line where her leg and groin meet, just barely caressing the edge of her vulva as you go by. Do this a few times before you focus on her genitals. You want her legs apart now - lift and bend at the knee, then rotate the leg outward to give the best access to her vulva. Vary soft strokes with firm ones, and finger tips with the whole palm. Upward strokes are likely to be more stimulating, but be careful not to over stimulate. A small amount of oil in the vagina is not usually a problem, but don't get anything scented in there, and be aware that oil could interfere with condoms and spermicides.

From here you're on your own - play it by ear and either finish the massage back down to her feet, massage her genitals till she orgasms, or move to some other sex act.

First we need to understand that orgasm and ejaculation don't always go together. Ejaculation without orgasm is technically possible, but it's not an issue in what we are discussing here. Orgasm without ejaculation, however, is something which some men learn to do; more on that later. When a man has an ejaculation (not just an orgasm), it starts what is known as the resolution phase. The resolution phase lasts from minutes to days depending on the individual. As a man ages his refractory period gets longer, but two men the same age can have very different refractory periods. Resolution is often wrongly defined as the period of time during which a man can not get another erection; more accurately it is the period of time during which he can not ejaculate again. A man may be able to get a second erection in a very short time, but not be able to ejaculate again for a while.

It is also known that the intensity of the male orgasm is directly related to how much fluid he ejaculates; the more he ejaculates, the better it feels. Two thing which increase the quantity of ejaculation are prolonged abstinence, and prolonged stimulation prior to climax. The intensity of an orgasm is also affect by the strength of the contractions, and this is in part a function of how strong the PC muscles are.

It's also necessary to understand that ejaculation starts shortly before semen is squirted from the body. Once the various internal organs being to empty their fluids into the urethra, the ejaculation process has started, and nothing will stop it; even if stimulation ends, semen will be ejaculated a second or two later. This is refered to as "ejaculatory inevitability," or "the point of no return."

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Orgasm is certainly the most pleasurable sensation of sex, it's not a sudden enjoyment preceded by no pleasure. Stimulation of the penis produces pleasurable sensations
Doing this repeatedly will be a mind blowing experience he will never forget.
from "start to finish." The feelings get better and better as the man approaches climax, and shortly before orgasm the sensations are very, very pleasurable. With some practice a wife can learn to take him to that pleasurable "peak," and then back off just enough to avoid causing orgasm. Doing this repeatedly will be a mind blowing experience he will never forget. You can also learn to take him to the peak and keep him there for a much longer time than would normally occur. Making this happen just takes practice and attention to what you're doing. Watch his body, especially his genitals, and learn to read the signals about how close he is to climax (see the article on arousal). Initially peaking will need to be done during manual simulation, but once you know his body's responses well you can probably do it during intercourse too.

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A girlfriend of mine told me she knows men who are able to get a second erection very shortly after ejaculating. Some men can even maintain enough of an erection after ejaculation to continue intercourse, and if their refractory period is short enough they may have two ejaculations during a single prolonged act of intercourse. While there are some limits on this, many men can have two full orgasms in a short period of time. This is especially true if the man's wife is willing to take a bit of extra effort.

Many men can have two full orgasms in a short period of time.
Oral sex seems to be the surest and fastest way to give a man a second erection, but it may not be enough to bring him to orgasm. Stimulation will need to be stronger and last longer, especially if he has three or more climaxes in a short time, so be sure to provide adequate lubrication to avoid excessive soreness the next day. Repeat orgasm by intercourse is possible, but he may need the stronger stimulation of the missionary or rear entry position. To give you an idea of what a man may be capable of, we have spoken to couples (who's honesty we trust) who report 2 orgasms in 10 minutes, 3 orgasms in 30 minutes, 5 in three hours, and up to 9 in 24 hours.