What Do You Ladies Want To See In A Hello Msg?

Hell I get more action in real life then on the Internet. My last 6 dates came from women I bumped into and asked out. Heck I met one girl for a 30 second elevator ride and she gave me her real phone number & home address and went out on a few dates with me.

So far I haven't even gotten a response back. Let alone a date. I figured these women would at least say "no thanks." I would prefer a little more feedback then that. But, hey anything is better then nothing at all.

I mean why dismiss someone totally out of hand? Especially when it appears that I meet up with every single thing they say they are "looking for"? You'd think it would at least be worth a few emails before blocking someone.

First emails I have sent have been everything from a short hello poem, to a little more detail on myself to a simple "I like X Y and Z in your profile. Lets chat over email or over coffee."

So what are the hot spots for that first message? If these women really are looking for me then why not at least exchange a few emails?

maaaan CUT IT OUT

in online dating and in message exchange there are several important things. not only your first message should be interesting and attractive but your photo and your profile (personal add) too. cos girl watch your profile before reply you. and if she like it - she replies...

one of the adventages of online dating is that there hundreds and thousand of girls who looking forward to receive a message from you... so if some one doesn'r reply you back...move forward to another...there is another one who will reply